The One Where Heckles Dies - S2-E3
Visible crew/equipment: When Mr. Heckles is being taken away, just as the officer starts to follow the gurney the shadow of the moving boom mic can be seen on the wall behind him, at the right side of the screen. (Widescreen version).
The One Where Heckles Dies - S2-E3
Visible crew/equipment: Right before Monica breaks the seashell lamp there's a shot of Rachel walking into her bedroom, and just as she walks through the doorway set equipment can be seen at the right side of the screen. (Viewed on widescreen).
The One Where Heckles Dies - S2-E3
Visible crew/equipment: After Mr. Heckles is taken away, when it cuts to Phoebe walking out of the kitchen, the reflection of studio lighting array can be seen on the TV screen. Also later in Heckles' apartment, studio lighting's reflected on his TV screen.
The One Where Heckles Dies - S2-E3
Visible crew/equipment: After Monica yells "Stop with the broom, we're not making noise," when both Monica and Rachel stomp their feet the studio lighting can be seen at the top of the screen, over Ross (this doesn't refer to Monica's star light fixture). And when the others join in stomping their feet, we can also see the boom mic dip into view.
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
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