The One With The Birth Mother - S10-E9
Visible crew/equipment: When Joey's telling Phoebe about having been at a nice restaurant with his date and how she took fries off his plate, in the shots facing Joey in the restaurant we can see the end of the set wall, with a 2x4 framed plywood board and a heavy duty extension cord hanging there.
The One With Ross's Tan - S10-E3
Visible crew/equipment: When Monica walks into the apartment and announces to Chandler that they're not friends with Phoebe anymore, the hole in the wall beside the door (which is usually hidden behind the picture) can be seen when she walks in and also when Phoebe and Amanda walk in.
The One With Ross's Tan - S10-E3
Visible crew/equipment: After Ross goes in for his disastrous tan, when it cuts to Joey and Rachel walking into their apartment the hole (used for a camera angle) in the wall can be seen at the right side of the screen. As an aside, when Ross leaves Monica and Chandler's apartment later just as Rachel walks in, that hole is seen in the hallway and it's covered up.
The One Where Joey Speaks French - S10-E13
Visible crew/equipment: After Rachel tells the others that her father had a heart attack and Ross takes two of Monica's cookies, when it cuts to the shot of Central Perk it's from a low angle, and the studio lighting rigs at the ceiling can be seen through the windows.
The One With The Home Study - S10-E7
Visible crew/equipment: After the opening credits, in the first shot when Joey walks into Monica and Chandler's apartment, the shadow of filming equipment can be seen moving at the left side of the screen. (Widescreen version).
The One After Joey And Rachel Kiss - S10-E1
Visible crew/equipment: After Chandler starts removing Monica's braids from the shower curtain rings, when it cuts to Joey and Rachel walking into their apartment, we can see the hole in the wall at the right side of the screen. And it's seen again when Ross walks in on Rachel and Joey kissing.
The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: After Joey describes Emma's funny Elmo cup to Phoebe, it cuts to Monica and Chandler walking in, and to the right of the door we can see the bulletin board is cut in size partially covering the hole in the wall. Later, when Phoebe and Joey leave after the wind-up toy race not only is this visible again, but through the hole we can see the other hole in Monica and Chandler's wall.
The One With Ross's Tan - S10-E3
Visible crew/equipment: After Monica gets the call from Chandler about the fake car accident and leaves Phoebe with Amanda, in the next shot of Joey walking into his apartment the bulletin board that usually hangs beside the door is cut to about a quarter of its size, and it's covering part of the hole in the wall.
The One After Joey And Rachel Kiss - S10-E1
Visible crew/equipment: Ross, Joey, and Chandler are chatting in the plane. After the camera zooms out when Chandler heads to sit next to Monica, a cameraman holding a camera is visible on the left of the scene. [HD/widescreen version]. (00:13:25)
The One After Joey And Rachel Kiss - S10-E1
Visible crew/equipment: After Monica whips her hair around and smacks herself in the face with all the shells in her hair, it cuts to Ross at his apartment, and the end of the set wall can be seen at the right side of the screen, with the sound stage visible. (00:21:45)
The One Where The Stripper Cries - S10-E11
Visible crew/equipment: At the end, when Ross and Chandler are arguing about what bed Rachel was on (in the flashback), a line of stage lights is visible in the copper pans behind them. (00:21:40)
The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: When Monica is talking to Chandler about waking Emma up, as she walks over to him, crew lights are visible in the top left corner of the screen. (00:05:35)
The One After Joey And Rachel Kiss - S10-E1
Visible crew/equipment: When Monica is waving around her shellfish hairdo in the final scene at the hotel, the camera zooms out. When it does this, look at the top of the set. Not only can you see where the set ends, but you can also see the stagelights, hanging equipment etc. (00:12:10)
The One Where Joey Speaks French - S10-E13
Visible crew/equipment: When Joey is calling Phoebe after she walked out of his apartment, the shadow of a camera can be seen on Monica's door. (00:08:05)
The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: After Rachel announces that Phoebe and Joey will perform something, Phoebe asks Joey if he'll be nervous because he has nothing prepared, and when Joey replies that he does it every day with three cameras pointed at him, it's perfect timing that in the next shot we can see filming equipment at the right side of the screen.
The One With Princess Consuela - S10-E14
Visible crew/equipment: At the very beginning of the episode when the friends are at the table a microphone dips into the shot above the table. (00:00:05)
The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: At Emma's birthday party, Joey and Phoebe are discussing the performances they are doing for Emma. The balloons placed behind them reflect the stage and spot lights. This happens throughout the episode in most of the balloons.
The One With Princess Consuela - S10-E14
Visible crew/equipment: At the very start when Monica mentions swinging, all the stage lights are visible in her glass of red wine. (00:00:20)
The One With Princess Consuela - S10-E14
Visible crew/equipment: When Rachel announces a job in Paris, a stage light is reflected in the pot behind her. (00:20:45)
The One With Ross's Grant - S10-E6
Visible crew/equipment: When Joey turns the video off, the end of the set is visible in the TV. (00:15:10)
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
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