And the Dish Ran Away with the Spoon (2) - S8-E2
Continuity mistake: At his "reception" Niles has his arm around Mel and says, "I didn't even have to check her teeth" to a member of the horsey set - and the shot then shows Mel and Nils standing apart, even though there was no time for them to have done this.
Answer: While he hasn't gotten over it, he also took into account what the shooter's mother said. He refused to make a statement either for or against him. He can't forgive the shooter, but he's gotten past the anger.
Greg Dwyer