The One Where Ross Is Fine - S10-E2
Continuity mistake: When Owen is telling his parents Chandler paid him $50 not to tell them he knows he is adopted, Chandler says "which technically now you should give back" and he is looking at Owen. In the next shot his back is to Owen.
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
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